If you begin the relationship with a lie, it will be extremely hard to develop trust later on,” she adds.
In other words, he may be trying to have his cake and eat it too. Have you already started fantasizing about a future together?
If he lied to you, assume he will continue to lie, says relationship coach Donna Barnes.
by Larry O'Connor, MFT Men’s Challenges with Separation and Divorce “Women grieve the loss of a relationship before ending it, men grieve it after it has ended,” may say it best.
Statistically, 65-70% of divorces are filed by women (90% in college-educated couples).
Experiencing trauma weakens an individual’s basic integrity, compromise one’s confidence, and distort their attitudes about others.
It’s not uncommon for men to feel inadequate, and are socially alienated when their marriage ends.
Additionally, are less likely to isolate, and seek support and companionship with friends or family.
Apart from career, a man’s partner is typically his most vital relationship.The majority immediately scramble to salvage their marriages, citing family or finances, prepared to agree to anything to keep their world in tact.Often this is in reaction to the shock, and not being prepared.Wouldn’t you want to walk around the world freely, as a couple? At some level, he will have difficulty fully respecting you, knowing that you entered into a relationship given his circumstances.And depending on how you both got involved, don’t expect much respect from his friends and family, either.While you may feel like he is confiding in you with those problems, you’re really just becoming his therapist.