If you’re writing to men who state that they’re looking for women 24-32, you can’t be too surprised that they’re not writing back. According to the aforementioned blog post, the average woman will get a 30% response rate from the most attractive men.No more than a man who is 55 should be too surprised that you’re not replying to his query. The least attractive women get less than a 10% response from the most attractive men. Okay, it’s time to have an open and frank discussion about the battle of the sexes and the dating game.
The two services used by these individuals were OKCupid and Match.com, two of the largest and most popular dating websites on the Internet.
What I learned from carrying out an interview of a female and the interview of a male trying to dig into this intriguing subject was that using the Internet for dating is equally painful for men and for women, but for very different reasons.
On the plus side, those who find us appealing, find us REALLY appealing.
🙂 He’s out there- you just might need more time and effort to find.
You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.
To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse.I’m not saying you’re unattractive – I have no idea what you look like – but if you were expecting men to be knocking down your door, take a look at the most attractive women in New York City between the ages of 25-35. Not to only have one source, but Ok Cupid also did a post on race.I think you’ll see why you’re not getting as much attention. And what they observed is that yes, in fact, the percentage response that Indian women get from white men is less than they’ll get from men of all other races. I read what I purchased from you faithfully and followed everything you said.I am a 36-year-old East Indian woman living in New York City. This is incredibly frustrating, especially after I checked your blog and saw that in a question you asked about response rate, ALL these women said that they got at least 50-60% response rate.Once considered a realm inhabited only by the socially awkward, online dating is now just another tool in the toolbox, no matter whether you’re looking for a hook-up or your soulmate.....