If you are following The Rules religiously, there is no reason to call him.
He should be calling you, and calling you again and again until he pins you down for a date.
That's because when they call you, they're doing the dialing, they want you, miss you at that moment, and can't wait to hear your voice.
When they call you, they're the aggressor, they've thought about what they're going to say and have made the time to say it. The Rules work for you when they call you because you may not be home and they'll wonder where you are or have to call again.
Not calling will leave him desiring you mor^ make him want to see you again and call you again.
It prevents him from getting to know all about you much too quickly and getting bored.
To call men is to pursue them, which is totally against The Rules.
They will immediately know that you like them and possibly lose interest! So, if you don't want a man to know how much you like him, or that you feel empty and insecure don't call him.
However, don't be surprised if a man takes a week or two after the first date to call.
He may have a lot of things going on, or he may be dating other women. Just get busy (so you don't think about him twenty-four hours a day). Here's a good example of how to handle such a situation: Our friend Laura waited two and a half weeks after her first date with David to hear from him.
He may be trying to fit you into his schedule but just isn't sure how to do it. David was newly divorced and needed time to think before jumping into another relationship. Unlike most women, she didn't call to "see how he was doing" or with some other excuse lilce, "Didn't you say you needed the name of my financial planner?