So whether your partner goes to a different school, is abroad this semester, or is your 35-year-old neighbor back home, read below for some tips on how to make the most of your Skype sex experience. Just like in everyday sex, neither of you have anything to prove. Practice being in front of a webcam and know the things that make you feel sexy when you’re “on display.” Whether it’s the lighting, the clothing, or the positioning, be aware of what makes you feel good. Because you can’t be there to officially show your partner how turned on you are, tell them! But as my friend Sullivan says, “Sometimes when it starts to feel silly looking at a computer screen, laughing like you would in person eases tension and makes it more organic and real. Talk about what worked and what didn’t and if you would be interested in doing it again. As much as you may love the sex, that’s not all Skype is for. So set a date, some ground rules, lock your door, and have some fun!Remember that you are doing this to enjoy each other so have fun with it! Try talking it through ahead of time to alleviate some of the nervous energy regarding letting loose in front of your computer screen. Again, I stress, this is about you, not your audience. Make sure you are getting the most pleasure and that you are comfortable. Skype sex (and mutual masturbation in general) is an amazing way to share an intimate part of yourself with your partner. Your partner will know if you’re having a good time and they will be into it, too. Show appreciation for your partner and give them encouragement. For me that makes it feel more like sex than just watching each other masturbate. Non-verbal ways of indicating pleasure reception, ya feel? If you're the stay-at-home spouse, tuck a few surprises into your mate's suitcase, briefcase or between the pages of a book he or she is taking — it's a quick and easy way to spice up your relationship.
She states positively “Maintaining a healthy sex life across any distance is so easy these days.
All it takes is a little flexibility, some creativity and prioritizing the time.” Here are some tips that have helped Dawn’s LDR maintain its steamy status: ● Send each other letters (the old fashioned way) outlining your latest fantasy.
Send a postcard with a scene of where you are, or a cartoon cut from the paper or a magazine.
If you have cards, stamps and envelopes on hand, it's very simple to drop one in the mail.
Perhaps one or both of you travel a lot for work or maybe you’ve got a spouse stationed overseas for a military assignment.
While it’s said that absence makes the heart grow fonder, staying sexually satisfied in a monogamous relationship presents unique challenges when the physical touch of your lover is beyond your fingertips.You will look sexiest if you’re feeling sexiest, angles be damned. Tell them what you wish you were doing to them and If you feel so inclined, vocalize it. How do you maintain a healthy sex life when you and your partner live hundreds or thousands of miles apart?Despite some of our unhealthy relationships with Siri, akin to Joaquin Phoenix and Scarlett Johansson in Her, technology can be an amazing tool for maintaining real-life relationships, especially sexual ones.Whether you have a vibrator that is synced to your i Tunes or a pillow that allows you to hear your partner’s heartbeat wherever they are, technology can be a beautiful thing.Use Snail Mail: Nothing is more intimate than a love note.